Love & destiny, or clinging & attachment?

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Posted by Anna ( on April 13, 2000 at 22:44:28:

Please help me see clearly a situation in my life.
I met a man whom I thought I would marry. We ended up separating however, because our relationship came to a stand still. Since then, I have had 3 strange occurances:
I found the last parking spot in a packed mall which happened to be next to his car which he was just walking up to. I thought I saw him at my place of work and walked up to find it was not him, but because I had walked that way I continued walking and actually DID come across him a second later. Lastly, I was dreaming about him for the first time in ages, and the phone woke me up and it was him calling for the first time in 6 months.
I know this all sounds silly, but I cannot stop thinking that it is fate and destiny, and I can't explain why I have these premenitions. I am rationalizing that I am perhaps clinging to this person, and letting my desire to one day again be with this person cloud my judgement. It is just the "psychic" and "prementition" aspect to this that is really causing me problems. Please help uncloud my mind, it is causing me great suffering.

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