Posted by wahyin (22.214.171.124) on October 07, 2000 at 20:26:40:
In Reply to: love posted by kundagbo on October 07, 2000 at 12:21:42:
I suggest you forget about having a new affair. No. 1, if you are a real Buddhist, you must observe Precept no.3 ie Kamesu Miccha-cara veramani sikkha padam samadiyami. (Meaning : Do not indulge in illegal sex or adultery. You must also observe the Buddha's teachings of the 8 Noble Paths. Be mindful that Cravings and Attachments are the Causes of Suffering. As such, I advise that if you have the Wisdom, you must forego whatever temptations that you are facing. Metta to you.
: i am a married man and although i love my wife our
: is not the same as it was when we got married 18 years ago.
: now i have met someone for whom i have feelings for.
: i am confused and unsure of the nest step.
: i dont want to cause unhappiness for my wife
: but yet i am not happy now.
: can you tell me what to read or do?
: i know if i have an affair and she finds out it
: would be tragic
: but yet what am i to do just be unhappy
: if you can give some insight please do
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